So I’ve been dating a girl who travels, as this blogger did suggest. And so far, so good — I still haven’t lost my wallet, my passport, my keys. Sure my car has put on some extra miles; my shoes feel a little more worn. But when they say that it’s about the journey not the destination, that’s only half right — it’s also about who you’re with.
In dating a girl who travels, you always have to be prepared. With her jeans, flats, a cotton top, and a backpack, she’s ready to go and will wait for no one — not even you. She has places to go and people to meet, so I count myself lucky that she can spot me in a crowded street. There’s really no telling where she wants to go next, but you can rest assured that when she puts her hand in yours she trusts you enough to lead her to wherever you want to go.
So take care of her, this girl who travels, but don’t try too hard. Her experience on the road has taught her to be simple, practical, and kind. She’s not one for fancy dinners (though that would be nice from time to time) because for one who is used to traveling on a budget, food is food. She rather you hunt for a bargain and save your money for something you’ll actually need. She won’t mind simple, cheap dates as long as you find your way to her.
And when you meet, it’s always a treat. Her travels have given her the power to see, so pay her good attention. She’ll never fail to point out a funny sight or spell a ridiculous sign, so don’t forget to laugh. She appreciates beauty, is deeply moved by art, and can spend her days adoring interesting sights in websites of places near and faraway. She has an eye for justice, too, and can be passionate about the underdog and the outcast. To her we are all connected, each of us a unique detail in the fabric of the world.
This is also why she can go on and on about everyone she’s ever met. From her peers to her friends to her family and to perfect strangers, her stories can breathe life into names of people you’ll barely meet or most likely never will. Each of them has given her something to help her on her way, whether it be an anecdote, a sweet memory, or a laugh. She sees each person as a product of his or her own travels. And though she’ll ask you from time to time about where you’ve been, what matters more to her is who you are now. So interest her, care for her, intrigue her. Soon enough she’ll ask you about where you want to be. She’s a traveler, after all, figuring out where she wants to go, too.
So is it worth dating a girl who travels? Definitely. In the end you end up traveling, too, but not necessarily always to other places, cultures, and climes. It takes some distance, after all, to get to know another person fully and completely. And when you’re cared for by a girl who travels, you’ll know that you’re as good as you are. She’ll take you in, with all your fears and insecurities, and believe in you — and that will be enough to send you soaring to heights you’ve never imagined.
And all she’ll ask in return? Just always be there. For a girl who travels can never just stay in one place forever. Her heart may be yours, but her soul longs for an affair with the entire world. You’ll have to let her go eventually, but not too much. Because there is always just one thing all travelers need at the end of the day.
So go find a girl who travels. Love her, care for her. Challenge yourself to be a better man and be that place she calls home.
Aaawww…how romantic! =)
This is one of the nicest ‘lecture’ I’ve ever read π
Love this post. Thanks for showing us what it’s like to date someone like us π
….so rare to see a guy notice so much in a girl….you surely must be so absolutely in love with her!
this has to be one of the sweetest reads ever π cheers to traveling and love π
You truly understand the heart/soul of a woman traveler. Kudos!
Really beautifully written. I just have to disagree with one thing – I know very few travelers who think that “food is food”. At least for me, the food is an integral part of discovering a new place or of feeling like I’m really back at home. But you are right, they don’t necessarily have to be lavish. Just good food.
Completely agree. I for one, always try to find local food everywhere I go.
So, good food is a necessity.
Super nice…. So sweet π
Awww I so love this!!! π
Very nice and thoughtful! Now just need someone who understands the whole girl-who-travel thing just like you did and my life will just be perfect π
Wow! You must be very inlove to come up with this note. Im excited to meet mine. LOL
you wrote it perfectly. I wish to see Dora soon. LOL! π
Got me all sniffly and gooey inside. π I found home in someone special and I think you’ve articulated very well some thoughts that he has tried to express. May all travelers always have “someone” to call home.
yes, he did articulate it very well. My BF agrees. =)
This is beautiful! So well thought-out and visual. If this was a book, I would keep on reading.
so beautiful π
“Challenge yourself to be a better man and be that place she calls home.” <— beautiful! π
truly!
So nice and so true, I’ll bet she’ll call you home soon…
I love this poet.
loved it… I’ve never really saw it like that before but now I can see the rays shining through so amazed that a guy can actually pay so much attention π … good read. Thank you.
I have had that experience , but the other way around … a boy that travels, but essencially it’s the same!
Such a nice post! I can find so many things true about me as a traveler π
i love this!!!
halatang may inspirasyon.
Lovely. π
It is amazing… π
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Hi Martin,
How do I repost this in my blog? i want to share it. so nice. π
thanks.
I also have something related
http://meandmychucks.wordpress.com/2012/06/18/which-kind-of-traveler-are-you/
and how am i supposed to meet this girl again? =)
Start traveling π
have been
So sweeet!
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When youβre cared for by a girl who travels, youβll know that youβre as good as you are. Sheβll take you in, with all your fears and insecurities, and believe in you β and that will be enough to send you soaring to heights youβve never imagined.
*swoon* good point well made.. ^_^
Rings true for me! I travel a lot. But at the end of the day, you still long for some place/something/someone to call home. We all have the need to feel safe and the familiar gives you that sense of calm. π
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Thank you for this. Hope you don’t mind that I hit reblog. π
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awesome read! I just shared this on my FB. I am a female traveler and you are so right on the things you’ve said. =) well done!
I gave the title of this post to PAL’s Mabuhay Magazine when they asked me for posts I can recommend. If you can get a copy of the Aug 2012 issue, your blog is mentioned on page 78.
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this! π
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What a wonderful blog. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I’m hoping that you’re not a dying breed. =)
Killer stuff……!!! your thoughts are sooo true..!!!
This is one of the sweetest reads ever π cheers to traveling and love π
This is cute. Questions: Do you have a job? How many vacation days do you get? How do you align your schedules? So simplistic I know…
and I don’t date.. I’m gonna marry that girl who travels: http://kamphey.wordpress.com/2014/02/07/im-engaged-to-the-girl-who-travels/
romantic post β€ travelers make the best partners!
I met my soulmate while backpacking through Australia
http://wilfys.com/blog/so-i-got-married-to-a-backpacker-i-met-while-on-the-road-marriage/
I absolutely love this post! I’m the travelling girl who met her travelling man 4 years ago 10 000km from home π